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Re: Female friendships are difficult to navigate

Posted: Tue Sep 19, 2023 4:27 am
by cody
straight_evil wrote: Tue Sep 19, 2023 3:32 am
cody wrote: Tue Sep 19, 2023 1:00 am
straight_evil wrote: Tue Sep 19, 2023 12:34 am Most of my friends are female, we are largely in similar fields in different places so no real competition there. I have maybe 1 male friend and he's my hoodrat friend.
I love that, are your girlfriends from college ? Or before that ?
Most of them from college 1 from middle school. A lot of friends I had prior to college ended up being out of sight out of mind or I just didn't have the energy to maintain the friendships
i notice that is usually the case in girl friend circles, i feel like college is the perfect time to make friends as you are growing together yet separately

do you guys all get together or is it individual hang outs usually ?

Re: Female friendships are difficult to navigate

Posted: Tue Sep 19, 2023 1:29 pm
by straight_evil
cody wrote: Tue Sep 19, 2023 4:27 am
straight_evil wrote: Tue Sep 19, 2023 3:32 am
cody wrote: Tue Sep 19, 2023 1:00 am

I love that, are your girlfriends from college ? Or before that ?
Most of them from college 1 from middle school. A lot of friends I had prior to college ended up being out of sight out of mind or I just didn't have the energy to maintain the friendships
i notice that is usually the case in girl friend circles, i feel like college is the perfect time to make friends as you are growing together yet separately

do you guys all get together or is it individual hang outs usually ?
I'm the odd man out, I live out of state from the group so usually if I go there it's a group deal or we will take group trips but they will sometimes individually visit me. I guess it helps that a lot of my friends are friendly or at least pretty familiar with each other.


Besides the girls from the original post how are your female friend relationships?

Re: Female friendships are difficult to navigate

Posted: Tue Sep 19, 2023 3:23 pm
by cody
straight_evil wrote: Tue Sep 19, 2023 1:29 pm
cody wrote: Tue Sep 19, 2023 4:27 am
straight_evil wrote: Tue Sep 19, 2023 3:32 am

Most of them from college 1 from middle school. A lot of friends I had prior to college ended up being out of sight out of mind or I just didn't have the energy to maintain the friendships
i notice that is usually the case in girl friend circles, i feel like college is the perfect time to make friends as you are growing together yet separately

do you guys all get together or is it individual hang outs usually ?
I'm the odd man out, I live out of state from the group so usually if I go there it's a group deal or we will take group trips but they will sometimes individually visit me. I guess it helps that a lot of my friends are friendly or at least pretty familiar with each other.


Besides the girls from the original post how are your female friend relationships?
i am familiar with that dynamic.. my sister in law has a large girlfriend circle from college that are spread out. she asks me to hang w them, but honestly hanging with women who know each other in and out and being the odd one out is not my cup of tea sometimes lol.

my female friendships are not very good right now, i keep everyone at an arms length and i put in minimal to no effort to stay in touch. i do have lots of acquaintances, childhood friends, but no one who really knows me anymore. ever since my dad passed away 5 years ago, i shut everyone out and i haven't let anyone back in.. but i miss being friends with women

Re: Female friendships are difficult to navigate

Posted: Tue Sep 19, 2023 5:33 pm
by 216 God
Maria wrote: Mon Sep 18, 2023 9:46 pm female friendships are nearly impossible a lot of the time. I'd pull up this movie and then cut the cord on this one sided friendship like, yesterday



after watching this

I'm convinced that no realer friendship exists than that between mexican homeboys