Yep, good call that was the first thing I did.
lmaooo this is the first time I've seen your autistic ass actually engage with another member and you used the opportunity to lecture me and call me a little shit. I'm legit impressed. I like you even more now. A+
that is also trueMaria wrote: ↑Thu Sep 28, 2023 8:34 amThank you! <3cody wrote: ↑Mon Sep 25, 2023 2:13 am
Also, depends really. Was this aunt a vital part of your life, or was she just there? Did something happen 3-4 years ago that caused it?
Idk, I feel life is short so if someone matters to you, just forgive and move on. But if it’s some random aunt who just wants to stir shit up then forget her.
We used to be close a long time ago but nothing specific happened. People grow up, make new lives and drift away from some of the elders. It's weird behavior from her so I'm sure there's something else going on. I'm not mad, I just don't care what it is lol
maybe she misses you
ppl get weirdly emotional older they get
Maria wrote: ↑Thu Sep 28, 2023 8:44 amlmaooo this is the first time I've seen your autistic ass actually engage with another member and you used the opportunity to lecture me and call me a little shit. I'm legit impressed. I like you even more now. A+
Hey I meant little shit in the most hilarious way possible my aunt called me mean ass
Confronted tbhMaria wrote: ↑Thu Sep 28, 2023 8:28 amOoo I like the word mystique. It sounds much better than some of the alternatives but tbh mostly being difficult to figure out was passed down through the generations and works well for me lol. The last year's been a bit rough and my unusual forum quiet spells are going to get better, I haven't been mad at you or anyone.Dizzy Bone wrote: ↑Mon Sep 25, 2023 1:13 amIdk how to describe itMaria wrote: ↑Mon Sep 25, 2023 12:14 am I haven't heard from my aunt in 3-4 years and this year she sends me a 4 word and 6 emoji happy birthday text, which I really did appreciate and then I deleted it.
Fast forward 2 days, my mother calls me in a screaming drama panic, "Why haven't you called your aunt?? She's sooo upset!!"
Do you expect people to reply to your happy birthdays etc and get butthurt if they don't?
I don't think I'm the asshole here
But in my years of talking to you there's definitely a weight to your silence. Like even through text I feel like I can get an emotional read on everybody here except you. You got a mystique.
If I were auntie I'd be wondering if you were mad about some shit and blowing me off
I don't think you were wrong
But I feel like I have to return texts because I come from a family of easily slighted ppl
But let's say you did piss me off. Would you rather be confronted, possibly irrationally, or just let the whole thing blow over?
Because Maria gets a pass to berate me and i'm just one of those types who digs raw emotional honesty.
aka the white boy on her roster